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Welcome to Not What I Prayed For, a space where faith meets real life, and honesty takes center stage. Here, I share my journey navigating the unexpected twists of life—infertility, mental health struggles, and finding grace in imperfection—all while holding onto hope and faith. This blog is about embracing the messy, unfiltered truth of walking a path that looks nothing like the one I had planned, but trusting that God’s plan is still unfolding. Whether you’re searching for encouragement, humor, or practical ideas for engaging Primary children in singing time, I invite you to join me in finding strength, joy, and connection through life’s raw, beautiful complexities.
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Thriving with ADHD: Managing Adult ADHD in a High-Demand Environment
Living with ADHD as an adult in a hectic world can feel overwhelming. In this post, I share practical strategies and tools to help you thrive and succeed despite the challenges of ADHD in a high-demand environment.
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Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster: Coping with Infertility in a Family-Oriented Faith
Struggling with infertility within a family-oriented faith community can be emotionally challenging. In this post, I discuss ways to navigate feelings of failure or inadequacy while finding support and strength within your faith.
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Seeking Peace and Hope: Practical Ways to Find Solace in Faith
In times of difficulty, finding peace and hope in faith can provide tremendous solace and strength. In this post, I share practical suggestions for connecting with a higher power through prayer, scripture study, and acts of service to find comfort, peace, and guidance.
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Finding Support in a Faith Community: Feeling Seen and Understood
When facing personal struggles, it is crucial to find support within a faith community. In this post, I explore how to seek understanding and empathy from fellow believers, even if they may not fully comprehend the specific challenges you are going through.
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Balancing Faith and Challenges: Strengthening Spiritual Resilience
Maintaining spiritual strength during life’s toughest trials can be a complex journey. In this post, I delve into strategies and practices that can help individuals navigate the challenges while staying grounded in their faith and finding meaning in their experiences.
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Self-Care Tips for Busy Rural Living: Taking Care of Your Well-Being
Living in a rural area can come with its own set of stressors and challenges. In this post, I share simple self-care tips and practices that can help individuals living in a busy rural setting prioritize their well-being and achieve a healthier work-life balance.
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Navigating Unique Rural Expectations: Balancing Faith, Family, and Health
Rural living often comes with its unique set of cultural norms and expectations. In this post, I explore the challenges of navigating these expectations while maintaining faith, prioritizing family, and taking care of one’s health in a rural setting.
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Accessing Big-City Resources in a Rural Setting: Navigating Limited Opportunities
Living in a rural area can limit access to essential resources, including mental health care, fertility services, and career opportunities. In this post, I provide practical advice and resources on how to bridge the gap and access big-city resources while embracing rural living.
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Finding Community in a Small Town: Overcoming Isolation and Building Connections
Living in a small rural town can often lead to feelings of isolation and being different. In this post, I share strategies for finding community, connecting with like-minded individuals, and combating the loneliness that can come with rural living.
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Cultivating Stronger Bonds: How Infertility Impacts Marriage and Ways to Stay United
Infertility can put a strain on marriages, testing the strength and resilience of the relationship. In this post, I discuss the challenges couples face and provide practical tips and strategies to maintain a strong and supportive partnership throughout the infertility journey.